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Student
Profile.

A simple tool to help Student Shepherds know the story, spiritual life, growth, gifting, and next step of every student entrusted to them.

EVERY STUDENT SHOULD BE SOMEBODY'S FEW. Know their story. Notice their growth. Help them take the next step.

WHY THIS EXISTS

You can't shepherd a student you don't really know.

Attendance tells you whether someone was in the room. It does not tell you what they are carrying, where they are growing, or what God may be developing in them.

The Student Profile gives a shepherd a simple way to pay attention intentionally.

It is not meant to become paperwork for paperwork's sake. It should help the leader pray better, ask better questions, recognize growth, and identify a meaningful next step.

01 / STORY

Know the Student

Basic information, family context, school, interests, strengths, church experience, and what matters most to them right now.

02 / SPIRITUAL LIFE

Know Where They Are

Identify current spiritual rhythms, questions, prayer needs, areas of growth, and places where discipleship needs to become more intentional.

03 / PEOPLE

Know Their People

Notice the relationships shaping them: family, friends, spiritual influences, trusted church leaders, and mentors.

04 / DEVELOPMENT

Notice What's Emerging

Look for compassion, leadership, prayer, teaching, worship, service, evangelism, spiritual gifting, and possible ministry calling.

05 / PRIORITY

Choose One Focus

Identify the most important discipleship priority instead of trying to address everything at once.

06 / NEXT STEP

Build a Shepherd Plan

Decide how you will follow up, what you will pray, what opportunity may help them grow, and when pastoral involvement is needed.

KEEP IT SIMPLE

One student.
One priority.
One next step.

NOTICE
What is actually happening?

Pay attention to patterns instead of reacting to one conversation. Listen for questions, struggles, growth, gifting, and hunger.

DISCERN
What matters most right now?

A student may need help in several areas. Choose the most meaningful discipleship priority for this season.

ACT
What is the next faithful step?

Give the student something concrete: a conversation, spiritual practice, service opportunity, mentoring connection, or pastoral conversation.

REVIEW
What has changed?

Revisit the profile every 60-90 days. Celebrate growth and adjust the discipleship plan when needed.

HOW TO USE IT

Don't fill it out and forget it.

STEP 01

Build it naturally.

You do not need to interrogate a student to complete the profile. Learn their story through relationship, conversation, and time.

STEP 02

Pray through it.

Review the profile when you pray. Ask God to help you notice what you might otherwise overlook.

STEP 03

Revisit it.

Every 60-90 days, ask what has changed, what growth is becoming visible, and what should happen next.

USE WISDOM

The Student Profile is a discipleship tool, not a place to collect unnecessary sensitive information.

Protect student privacy. Keep completed profiles secure and accessible only to appropriate ministry leadership.

Serious safety, abuse, self-harm, family, or pastoral concerns should follow your church's established safeguarding, reporting, and pastoral-care procedures rather than simply being recorded on this form.

THE FEW

Know them.
Form them.
Release them.

The goal is not better paperwork. The goal is a leader who knows the students God has entrusted to them.

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